I have actually discovered that giving up social media for Lent was about the best thing I could have done during this time of social media and news media insanity. I am not hearing the lies and the meanness that some have told me is happening out there. I get on and check for updates so I know what my husband and kids need to do for their jobs and school and for our church services but otherwise… I am not missing the chaos that is the outside world.
I am glad to report that I have not experienced some of the crazy that I heard Dave Ramsey talking about today. I have only experienced kindness and cooperation here in our little community. People are stressed but most mature/self controlled people are being rational.
I think you could call what I am doing more of a “social distancing” practice than most because I am not even on social media. LOL I am more in line with the idea of “self sequestering.” That term describes our family more because we are also avoiding excessive media and news except for local information.
I have noticed something really cool in the midst of all the world’s insanity right now. I hear people outside my open windows walking and talking. I see people hiking up and down the mountains behind our house much more than usual. I have seen my neighbors more in the last two weeks than I have the entire time we have lived on this block. People are coming out of their homes and walking or playing with their kids. It really is fascinating how this is affecting people around us.
Our church situation is rather different from many of these larger churches that are shutting their doors right now. We are a small congregation and most of them are stuck in their homes all day every day lately and they long to reach out… they are mostly retired or empty nesters. We asked them what they wanted to do and they all agreed that, if they are well and able, they want to meet.
Our building allows for them to spread out and “distance” enough and since they are a small congregation this works for us. The building is cleaned weekly and the people want to be together so we met again this Sunday. We had a sweet time of prayer and an encouraging message and music. Dan challenged them to read Psalm 31 through the week after we read it together. We also made a small groups-in-homes plan if that has to stop and Dan is making a plan to record sermons if people are ordered to shelter-in-place.
Our college children have come home and they started online classes this morning. Our daughter had a trumpet lesson by video at 7:30am. Her school is in a different time zone so it was 8:30am there. LOL We didn’t mind the trumpet that early because Dan and I are up before dawn every day anyway. Our local school district is preparing to go online, too. Dan had an online district video update he attended in order to plan for students to begin next Monday the 30th.
We are trying to build a good routine that keeps us sane in the midst of this. It feels more like summer vacation but the kids have much more responsibility with online school. Kids are practicing horns and working on spring break assignments. They are keeping up with their laundry and such. It makes the day feel a little more “normal.”
Some things that have helped me the most are…
- Get up early every morning
- Read my Bible first every single day
- Make my bed
- Get a shower and get dressed – no sloppy PJs all day
- Keep a chore routine going… laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc…
- We eat one meal a day all together and that is usually dinner
- Step outside into the sunshine at some point during the day
- Zero television until after dinner in the evening. We are watching intentionally with a movie or television show
- Spend time reading and keep up with my book reviews
- Shut the computer down after business is done and leave the phone in a stationary place for the majority of the day.
I think the most important thing to do at a time like this is to trust God in all things and then keep some sort of routine to your day. Habits and routines can be our best friend in times like these.
Other things to remember is to be kind to those around you, check on your neighbors, thank those who are serving such as medical staff, store checkers and stockers, food service people, maintenance and emergency workers and our local police, fire, and other people who are on duty around the clock for our protection. Remember that you are not the center of the universe and you being inconvenienced is so not important. Extend grace, people. If you belong to God then that is a command… act like you belong to the King and be the good in your community.
How are you coping right now?
What, besides God, is saving your life right now?
How are you making your neighborhood and community better right now?
Feel free to leave a comment below and if you need prayer do not hesitate to share that with me, too. I am honored to pray for you!